Best friends may have grown up and technology has changed, but the bond between BFFs still has plenty in common with the ’90s. Back then, arguments could start over a neglected digital pet, matching accessories, or school drama, while making up meant passing handwritten notes covered in hearts and ending with “LYLAS.” Today, disagreements are more likely to involve social media silence or passive-aggressive comments, followed by a coffee date and a smiling selfie to officially move on.

Friday nights have also evolved. In the ’90s, best friends might head to the mall, shop for silly accessories, or sneak into a movie, while today a cozy night at home with streaming, snacks, and drinks can be just as appealing. Playing matchmaker has changed too—from using a cootie catcher and arranging classroom encounters to searching social media for someone’s profile. Even gossip has gone from schoolyard rivalries and candy to whatever show or online topic everyone happens to be discussing.

Through breakups, trouble, and everyday life, though, the role of a best friend remains remarkably familiar. ’90s friends showed support with treats, friendship bracelets, surprise visits, and innocent pranks, while today’s BFFs might turn to self-care days, nights out, emojis, group chats, or even matching tattoos. The details may have changed, but the heart of friendship hasn’t: being there for each other, sharing laughs, defending one another, and creating memories that last long after the trends disappear.