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Theresa worried about their age difference and the distance that might separate them, but her daughter was determined to follow her heart.<\/p>\n<p>The couple married quietly, and just a month later, Mary Lou left for South Korea. At the airport, mother and daughter shared an emotional embrace, unaware of how long their separation would last. Days turned into years, and twelve years passed without Mary Lou returning home. The only regular contact was a yearly money transfer accompanied by the same reassuring message: \u201cMom, take care of yourself. I\u2019m doing well.\u201d Theresa wanted to believe her daughter, but those words never eased her worries. During their only video call, Mary Lou looked familiar yet distant, and when her mother asked why she never visited, she simply replied that she was very busy.<\/p>\n<p>Although the money helped Theresa live comfortably, it could never replace the presence of the daughter she missed so deeply. 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