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The couple married quietly, and just a month later, Mary Lou left for South Korea. At the airport, mother and daughter shared a long embrace, knowing their lives were about to change.<\/p>\n<p>After that farewell, Mary Lou never returned home. One year became five, and then twelve. The only regular contact Theresa received was a yearly money transfer accompanied by the same brief message: \u201cMom, take care of yourself. I\u2019m doing well.\u201d Although the financial support helped, those words offered little comfort. Theresa couldn&#8217;t shake the feeling that something was missing from her daughter&#8217;s life. They spoke over video only once, and while Mary Lou looked much the same, she seemed distracted and distant. Whenever Theresa asked why she couldn&#8217;t visit, her daughter simply replied, \u201cI\u2019m very busy.\u201d With every passing year, the distance between them felt greater.<\/p>\n<p>Despite her loneliness, Theresa continued to hold on to their family traditions. Every Christmas, she prepared Mary Lou&#8217;s favorite meal and set a place for her at the table, even though the chair remained empty. After twelve years of waiting and wondering, Theresa decided she could no longer rely on brief messages to understand how her daughter was truly doing. Without telling Mary Lou, she bought a ticket to South Korea, even though she had never traveled abroad before. 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